Are women better communicators? At first glance you would think so. They're always on the phone talking (about nothing), facebooking, tweeting, and they've been texting since back in the day when you had to hit the number keys 2 and 3 times get to the right letter. Nowadays all of these techniques have been mastered by the age of 16. As women get older they begin to develop a weird type of telepathy that only they can understand. When they're around other women, they send and receive these mental signals. That's why your girl can tell whether she likes another female within five minutes of meeting her. Guys, tell me if this sounds familiar. You're going to McDonald's and ask your girl does she want something. She says "No thanks, I'm not really hungry." When you come back empty handed she says "Why didn't you get me anything?" You "Effed Up" bigtime. Even though she said she didn't want anything, she expected you to know that she really did. Now your sitting their hungry cuase you had to share. Your girl was using her "Venus Voice" to communicate with you.
Men, once you learn to receive and accurately interpret the Venus Voice you will finally begin to gain a full understanding of your woman's wants and needs. Notice I added the words "accurately interpret" this is very important. Often times guys learn to pick up on the language but misread it. This usually results in domestic violence. Fellas, No really means NO! (unless her body.. her body's telling you yeees). Some men use this knowledge, and the power it brings, to find the love of their lives. While other use it to develop ways to maintain a steady income during this recession. (like "pimpin") Don't get it twisted.... I'm not talking about getting in touch with your feminine side. All I'm saying is, if you you're sharing your life with someone you call a friend. If you claim you care about them. It's your responsibility to get to know that person. You can never truly love someone until you really know them, and you can never truly be loved unless you allow others to know you. The key to knowing one another is.. communication. #Holla@yaboy
Well Adrian I think you have it figured out pretty well. Sometimes you start something with no intentions of being in a relationship, just a quick hello and goodbye, but somewhere down the line you develop a true friendship with all the wrong starts. How do you explain that how do you go from all the deception to all the trust and love.
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ReplyDeleteIt's hard to make the transition from friends with benefits to a loving relationship. When you're just friends with a guy he let's you see his bad side so when that friendship turns into a relationship it's hard to have that trust. All I can say about that is, if there's no trust there's no chance for a relationship to grow. You have to communicate and let each other know what the expectations are before you make that change. As a guy I figure if I was a player when we met and you've watched me play women and treat them wrong. If we get together and I end up doing it to you who's fault is that.
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