Over the years I've always heard that woman mature faster than men. I've done a lot of research on this subject and scientifically that statement is false. Gender has no effect on maturity. In fact each person matures differently based on their life experiences. That said, I feel we can all agree that most parents expectations differ between their sons and their daughters. When boys are being immature we all laugh and say "Boys will be boys." When girls behave poorly we say "That's not how a young lady is supposed to act." I think it's fair to say that as a society we begin to focus our attention on our daughter's maturity or lack thereof at a young age, while allowing our sons to grow into manhood.
How old is too old? I asked around and the general consensus seems to be that 10-12 yrs age difference is cool for an older man and about 4-6 yrs. for and older woman, anymore and your pushing it... As a guy I get why Hugh Hefner is on T.V with 3 blondes. I know a lot of people get offended when they see a 75 yr. old guy running around with a 21 yr. old college student, but at the end of the day, you can't blame an old guy in the twilight of his life if he has what it takes to get a young hot chick to pay him some attention. At least no one is questioning their motives. She's trying to get her student loans paid and he's trying to complete his bucket list. If you think about it these can be some of the most honest relationships.
Older woman know their time is running out so they lower their standards because they don't want to spend the rest of their lives alone. That's why when you see them with a younger man he's usually a jobless con-man with a plan. You know who I'm talking about....
LIVES WITH OLDER LADY GUY!!!
1. I can't get a job because I owe too much back child support.
2. I'm 32 and I still play madden all day.
3. All I need is somebody with GD credit to help me get my record label off the ground...
4. I can take the kids to school in your car... run some errands... and come get you from work just in time for dinner..
The list could go on forever, and we all know there's a younger chick on the side. I guess you can say he's like a live-in babysitter with benefits. Now that I think about it, woman of all ages are with this guy. I think we'll change his name to... GUY AFTER MY BABY DADDY!!
The difference is younger woman eventually see this guy for who he is and move on. Older women knew who he was in the first place but he's circumcised and he makes the best fried chicken they've ever had.
I think a lot of men date older women because they're lazy and want to take the easy way out. All you have to do is listen to what she has to say about all of her X's (believe me that's all she'll talk about NE way) and do the exact oppisite of what they did. Young women are more challenging, their attention span is low. You have to be creative and take risks to gain and maintain they're interest. On the other hand, girls like to date older men for a sense of security. A lot of them are looking for a father figure.
As always you there are exceptions to every rule and you can't help who you fall in blah blah blah... I get it. However, I will leave you with this thought. If a guy that has known you all of your life and gruaduated high school while you were still in elementary school asks you out to dinner.... He's a #Rapo...
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